Midterms are almost over and grades are coming in. This is when I am the most nervous. My mind is filled with questions: Have I studied enough? Could I have done more? 

Each semester I register for three classes: one that is needed for my degree, one that I am interested in (either within my field or outside of my degree) and finally, a class that will challenge me beyond my comfort zone. This last class is typically where I learn the most because facing an extra challenge is how I learn best. I love challenges because I not only learn something new, but I also see what I’m capable of doing.

I know I work hard in all of my classes but I’m also the first one to beat myself up if I do poorly. I learned the hard way early on that slacking off does not work.

So now, to do well in a class, I keep with the same study routine. I fear that changing my routine will interrupt my study flow. When I find myself struggling in a class, I double my study time. I go all out - tutors, flash cards and extra note taking. The library becomes a second home to me. The last thing I want to see is a below average grade on my transcript.

An important tip to remember as a military spouse is to save all your report cards and transcripts and keep track of your credits. I do. I’ve found it is important to carry copies of these forms as you move to a new duty station or enroll in a new school. The counselor will ask to see them and you can enroll quicker and easier if you keep them on hand rather than request for them to be sent with each move.

Also, I take the math and English tests each semester. It may sound a little silly but you will be surprised by how much you learn in a single semester meaning your score on these tests will rise.

My worst subject is math and that’s the one subject that I need the most to complete my nursing degree. I am constantly working extra hard to make sure I am not just succeeded but also moving forward. Retaking the math test each semester helps me to gauge my progress.

I push myself to earn the best grades I can each semester. I find out what works for me as I study and continue to move forward. You can do the same. Find what methods work for you and reach for the stars!